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A.P. vs. Barbara Parsley

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A. P. vs. Barbara Parsley
192 Stafford St. Apt.1, Worcester, Massachusetts, 01603, United States
Amount Involved: $36,800.00
Complaint(s): Unfulfilled promises
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    • Claim #: 9972050
    • Amount Involved: 36,800.00
    • Filed On: Apr 22, 2018
    • Posted On: May 03, 2018
    • Complaint(s):
      • Unfulfilled promises
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Statement of Claim
Claimant says:
"I wrote a check for the following with my wife who I have been seperated from since August 2017. 
1.  $10,000 for purchase of a vehicle
2.  $4000 for payoff of a 401K loan
3.  $2000 for payoff of state taxes
She told me that we would purchase a house together.  And after purchasing the vehicle, I purchased a camper and she shortly after asked me to leave.  She said whe would pay me back the funds and I have not heard from her regarding these funds since.
I was talked into leaving TX to live with her and start a life together again.  After less than a year of marriage, she asked me to leave.  She was coming home late at night (2am), men would call her in the middle of the night.  She would leave the house and be gone all day. "
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Additional Communication Between Claimant and Barbara Parsley Hide
  • Apr 23, 2018, Claiming party added:
  • I am attaching my bank statement that shows the monies I took out to loan to Barbara as well as the monies I used to purchase a camper, that I would not have purchases if I knew I would not have a vehicle to pull it. The check numbers are as follows: check# 174 = $10000 ( monies for vehicle down payment) ; check # 175 = 10000 ( camper down payment); check# 176 ( payment for camper).

  • Jun 04, 2018, Claiming party added:
  • Many things have been said. First regarding the IRS debt, I would like to see proof that the IRS debt is paid. She is the one who suggested that I come home, back to the family. I was scared and I took her offer. I left my good job at Dell, friends and beautiful apartment. The 3 vehicles - one was a daily driver (Cadillac SRX), my son's vehicle and my '69 oldsmobile Cutlas convertible. The time she lived in Texas she did not work. When she left Texas, she only wanted to take her jewelry and clothes, which she did. While living with her in Mass, she was doing drugs (marijuana) and other drugs on a daily basis, even getting high with her family and her friends. There were 5 adults living there and contributing to rent and expenses. The deal was I help the kids out of debt, which I did. In closing, I am very disturbed that she robbed me of my money, time and emotions. Yes, I am a alcoholic with 1year sober. She was not even willing to take some of my calls while I was in the hospital. When getting out of the hospital, she would get calls in the middle of the night and even leave the house at 11pm and returning in the early morning hours. For approximately 4 months she did not even want to talk to me or sleep in the same room as me. I guess the next step is to go into divorce court and air our dirty laundry there. Not what I wanted to happen.

What Claimant Wants Hide
1. Compensation: Leaving TX under false pretenses May 07, 2018 $20,000.00
2. Payment due: purchase of vehicle May 07, 2018 $10,000.00
3. Payment due: 2016 MA state taxes May 07, 2018 $2,000.00
4. Pay me for my time: $ to find a new apartment May 07, 2018 $4,800.00
5. Other – Pay for claim posting cost May 07, 2018 $14.99
Cash total : $36,814.99
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The claimant's settlement terms were rejected with the following explanation:
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    "These are all lies. I was married to this man for 20 years. We moved to Texas with everything we had gathered through the 30 years we were together. I left after being there for 9 months with 12 boxes of belonging. I moved back to family in Massachusetts with no job, no car and no where to live. He kept everything including 3 vehicles. He reached out to me in 2016 to says his Dr has seen what they think is a tumor. He missed everyone and misses his family and wants to come home. If he had cancer he wanted to be with his family ( myself and two children) After many discussion I allowed him to come home. I flew to Texas and took 10 days and drove back to Massachusetts we everything he had left. We spent the next year with an alcoholic who had 6 inpatient stays due to his drinking, he also went to rehab for his drinking. His tumor turned out to be an ulcer. He did not work for year we were together, he said I now make enough money to support us both now. I have text messages to prove we have been in contact regarding money I owe him, I also have documentation to prove the
    10, 000 plus, have been paid to the IRS and nothing is owed. I have a canceled check for the 4,000. That he claims he loaned me. He purchased the camper on his own. He paid no rent while he was living in my home for the 14 months we were together. I also cover him under my health insurance because he is unemployed. And in closing, he was asked to leave my home after chasing me around in my home in a drunken rage. I no longer felt safe in my home. He stayed in my home another 2 months while looking for a new place to live. I am humiliated that he would stoop this low to claim I brought him here for a new life together. Very Sad !! I’m willing to send you any documents you would like to have this removed.


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  • Contributed Solution: by George Maxwell On 06-13-2018
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  • Contributed Solution: by George Maxwell On 05-05-2018
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